My automatic signature in message boards usually read "You're allowed an opinion, so think for yourself." It's really not as simple as it sounds though, because there are many seen and unseen factors involved, when it comes to people's opinions. So I pose the question, "how easily influenced are you really, by other people's opinions?" It's easy to say that you have your own opinion about things, but do you know where that opinion started? Did it really come from you? Can't you say that it may have originated from what you read or heard from somebody else? But then, any thought has to come from someone or something right? It's how you use those information and experiences to allow yourselves to form your own conclusion about something, and in turn rightfully say that it is "your" opinion.
Critics for movies, music, video games, etc have been getting really popular lately, especially in the entertainment field. The reason is because some people don't have the time and money to find out what they think of a particular movie, music, or game anymore. So they go ahead and use their favorite critic's opinion as their own. When they do that, a lot of the times they would start it off with "I heard..." which at least suggests that it isn't entirely their opinion, but then there are people who would blindly just accept it as fact and will go as far as fight for it.
On the flipside, there are those who would automatically have an opinion based on the sole purpose that it follows the opposite stance of another person's opinion. A person says "yes" to something, the other person automatically says "no." Is that just out of spite, because isn't that a very argumentative way of forming an opinion? Is it just because it's "cool to be different?" Is it just a way to try and invalidate another person's position, by contradicting their opinion? It's one thing to play "devil's advocate," it's another thing completely to have a blanket opposing opinion just for the purpose of provoking someone.
Opinions aren't finite and can easily change through time. Looking at the different opinions will only help you understand your own opinion and how valid it really is. The important thing is to always have an open mind to understand that there are people who may not share your opinion, and that's completely alright. Unless they are clearly wrong ofcourse...
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