Team work and showing respect to other people's operation at a work place I believe are really important to live up to in a job. Everybody is like a faceless cog in a machine as it is, so the least that we all should strive for is an efficient and conscientious community among the employees. I help you, you help me. I respect your work when you are just doing your job, you respect my work when I'm just doing my job. Simple concept right? Well as the years progress, I think it's become a little bit of a pet peeve of mine when somebody shows a total disregard to this ideology and in turn affects my operation. This happened to me recently, and it showed the angrier side of myself at work that I hardly ever shown.
Without going into details that I shouldn't legally divulge here, this guy from another department; let's call him "douchebag," was interfering with my operation at work. I've been at this company how many years now, and some of these people act like they can just ignore my operation and interfere with it? Clearly I was annoyed. I gave him several minutes to realize what he was doing, made my presence known, and hoped he would get the hint to knock it off. Nope, douchebag continued being in my way. I proceeded to tell him to pretty much "knock it off," explaining to him what I do, how he is getting in my way, and how he should consider just doing what he is doing somewhere else (as he clearly has viable alternatives). Douchebag moves away saying "unbelievable" in a disgusted irritated tone over and over again. After a few more of him saying "unbelievable," I yelled at him to stop where he was, because damnit, I'm not going to be disrespected like this.
I approached him demanding whether he was "giving me attitude." "Why are you yelling at me?!" was his response. I told him that I'm only yelling at him because he is giving me attitude. "Why are you yelling at me?!" was all he could say. "See, you aren't even able to give me an answer," is what I responded back. This upsets him some more, and he goes on and tells me how I should do my job, and how he does not have to do anything different. "So you think you know my job better?" is my obvious response. Another question he can't answer.
Douchebag starts walking closer to me in an intimidating manner. You know what? I stood my ground, as if I was ready for a fight in a cage. Then he goes and gets in my face, his body pressed against mine (can I legally physically defend myself at that point?). I still stood my ground and did not flinch. In fact I was already mentally prepared to defend myself if he gets more physical, since his attempt at intimidation was not working on me. He goes on and repeatedly asks me "What are you going to do about?!" Well I wasn't going to get trapped saying anything that would be considered threatening to him, so I simply said "I could always just talk to your boss." Douchebag says to go ahead then, acting like he didn't care. I say "alright" and asked for a contact number to call. He says that his number is "69," and it took me a second to realize what he said to me. I laughed out loud, smiled, and told him that's pretty funny, hoping it'll lighten up the mood. He responded with a "do I look like I'm laughing?!" still looking angry. So much for some levity. I knew what department he was working for anyways, and I knew how to get a hold of his boss. With a confident wry smile on my face, I just walked away.
A little over a half an hour later, I was talking to one of his managers and explained to her what happened. She told me to write a statement and that she will talk to douchebag about it. What I thought was kinda humorous was that one of the main points she was going to make sure to bring up to him was him saying "69," which is language that he isn't suppose to say at work. I told her that I wasn't offended at all and am open to casual conversations at work, but it apparently does not matter to her. To think that I was actually defending douchebag at that point. Besides, isn't him trying to intimidate me with possibly some physical harm, more of an issue to talk to him about?
Well this incident happened over 14 hours ago as I'm writing this, and I haven't heard what the conclusion to this negative encounter is. I did learn that I really don't back down from a confrontation after all. When I stood my ground at that face off, looked him straight in the eye, and didn't stutter my words, I felt like I was ready for one of those MMA fights that I enjoy watching. I was running on adrenaline at that point I suppose, but one of these days...
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