October 13, 2004
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You ever meet those people that come into something, expecting
everything to be perfect and go their way, but then goes into a
complete meltdown when it doesn’t? Well I met some people like
that at work. It was a sob story about how they don’t have that
much money, and how the expected their two days vacation to be this
great event. When it didn’t go their way, what do they do?
They blame others for their misfortune. Can’t they just except
that they just had a couple of bad days? Can’t they just except
that things unfortunately didn’t go their way? Do they really
have to pin this on somebody else? Not only that, but I heard a
spiel about how if they were richer than they were, these things would
not happen to them.To quote J.T. … “cry me a river.”
Writing that, I know I sound incensitve and mean, but being that I
myself have been known to act exactly the same way (except in small
doses), there simply is no reason for their complaints. I
personally make it an effort to consciously realize if I do that
myself. I’ll have to say that I’ve made great grounds in
restraining myself from blaming others for my own problems. It’s
just not worth it, because you’re already hurt, why bring others into
it because you can’t own up?
Comments (1)
JT! haha JT!!!! LOL!!!
But I agree with you blaming others doesn’t solve jack or make things better. Complaining is ok as long as they don’t dwell on it. *HINT HINT* *coughs* fongawa *coughs*